Silent Weekend is an AYSO tradition used nationwide to give kids the chance to just play and have fun—like the old schoolyard days when games were about playing, not sideline noise or pressure.
Objectives
* Let players enjoy the game with less outside interference.
* Show that kids can succeed with limited instruction.
* Help parents/coaches realize constant direction is distracting.
* Give players space to trust their skills and instincts.
* Build leadership and teamwork as players rely on one another.
* Support referees by reducing sideline interference.
* Remind adults how loud games have become by taking a break from it.
Guidelines
Spectators
* Cheer positively (goals, saves, effort).
* No coaching or yelling during play.
* Applause, clapping, rally towels, and pom-poms are encouraged.
* No horns, whistles, or noise makers (per AYSO National).
Coaches
* U8 & Younger: Normal coaching applies.
* U10 & Up: In-game coaching is not allowed. Speak before the game, at halftime, and with players on the bench. Use silent periods to observe and plan future teaching moments.
Players
* On the field: communicate, support, and direct each other.
* On the bench: act as the “12th player,” helping teammates with what you see from the sideline. (This should come from players, not coaches telling them what to say.)
Referees
* Give coaches a friendly reminder before the match and ask them to manage their sidelines.